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A year or so after they broke up, we ran into each other at a bar one night and hit it off.

We hooked up that night and over the next few weeks flirted off and on. I was coming from a long meeting and hadn't had a cigarette all day, so on my way to pick her up, I stopped by a gas station by her house and bought a pack.

After she got in the car, I asked if she minded if I smoked.

She insisted that she didn't at all, so I lit up.

This happened again several times whenever we hung out together, even though she never smoked except for once or twice.

I'd pull out a cigarette, and she'd eagerly light it for me.

I had a couple of cigarettes during that time; she never indicated it was an issue.

My friend, however, was a heavy smoker -- smoked much more than I did (or do today) -- and he lived in a "smoke friendly" house.

So she was constantly around it, but any time I was hanging around them, she never once made it an issue.

Now, the good ones: One girl I dated was a non-smoker, or "ex smoker." She knew I smoked before we started dating, but insisted she didn't mind.

She was telling the truth, too, because she never once made it an issue.

It rarely was an issue but if we ever got into an unrelated argument, she'd usually try to sneak it in there as a "problem," in our relationship, even though she knew she was only using it as a red herring of sorts.