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The relationship that develops between a man and his child starts before the child is even physically in this world.Being a step-parent, you don’t have that historical connection.As a society, we’ve come to welcome non-traditional family units.Majority of the time, it works out well and the parents involved raise children who go on to be productive citizens in the world. My relationship with my father was imperfect and strained.For example, if one of the biological parents tends to be a harsher disciplinarian, as a stepparent, you become the family’s glue. One thing I learned in dealing with a single mom is that even when a child isn’t yours, they have a profound effect on who you become as a man.
Dating a single mom forces you to learn and practice a deeper level of understanding and compassion.
You can only hope that the environment remains cordial.
If it doesn’t, the unfortunate pitfall is that you’ve developed a bond with a child that may find out one day his/her father held negative opinions about you. No matter how good your intentions are, it could leave a damaging effect on them as adults knowing that their other parent never accepted you.
There were stretches of time when he wasn’t around; either by his own volition or my mother protecting us from his disappointments. Having such an inconsistent father was my first example of what kind of father not to be.
The same rang true in my friends’ households and even strangers in the neighborhood. Over time, I have shaped my own ideas about fatherhood and how I want to parent my children.
Sure you can exchange a few messages over a dating app, but always speak to a potential date on the phone first.