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Participants were asked to rate their interest based on scenarios of potential partners who were described as either very easy to get (low availability); very hard to get (high availability); or in between (medium availability).
The results showed that both men and women preferred very easy-to-get partners for short-term sex, but preferred partners who had medium availability for dates and relationships.
These explain how playing hard to get works on the social influence principles of scarcity and reactance; when it is best to play hard to get; and the best times for men and women to be aloof or responsive.
I have also explored research confirming that teasing someone in such ways increases desire, but decreases friendly feelings—along with the general benefits of making a partner work for your affections, too.
They can also be a way to test a partner's level of interest and commitment.Many of the remaining behaviors associated with playing hard to get are ways of prolonging the chase—and these tactics assume that interest is already present.Strategies such as sounding busy, being hard to contact, taking a long time to respond, and being non-responsive are behaviors best used in a more established relationship.Playing hard to get requires that you first learn how to be attractive to others in different ways and know how to get their attention.Only then will being somewhat aloof increase the attraction—but it will create it from scratch.
The balancing act of being moderately hard to get holds true for most relationships, unless you are only interested in a short-term fling. It wasn't until I got help & realized that I was involved in a replay of my relationship with my cold, distant & unavailable father, and trying to get both of them to love me that I woke up to reality. And when I finally left my hard to get lover, he was the one who came running after me. And maybe that realization made him true to his emotions when u left. Reality is that you will come across people that will play hard to get, and if it offends you in the same way it offends me, by reading this article you may learn to recognize these patterns and understand them so you can steer far away from the person using them. i don't like to play games and wouldn't want a relationship with someone who did.