In this article, I’m going to provide you with key pointers to getting the relationship you want.I’m going to start off with the basics so that even a guy who is a virgin and totally confused about dating, can begin taking his first steps to having a girlfriend. So I had basically thrown myself into a social situation where it’s the HARDEST to meet women if you’re a more introverted or intelligent guy.I talked about this in my video on social anxiety and dating.As long as a girl is attractive to a man, he will often see her as girlfriend material…I had to become a more assertive, outgoing and interesting person.I had to overcome many of my old anxieties and build new conversation skills. If we’re going to be honest, it’s a woman’s appearance first and foremost.
Was there ever a time when you didn’t notice a girl at all (weren’t attracted), then she turned out to have a sense of humor and you were now very interested? It wired us to be attracted to a women likely to produce healthy kids with great genes.You have to put yourself into situations where you have a chance to come in contact with women. If you don’t have many friends or a social circle, then you’ll have to get some or be proactive in other ways. So if you want a girlfriend, then you’ll need to do something different. Looking back now, it’s no wonder girls never showed any interest in me.Remember any hobbies have you ever thought of trying (drawing, martial arts, volleyball, etc) and see where those classes are offered. (Most of us are.) I saw hundreds of girls in classes, part time jobs or elsewhere. Even in my first year of university, where there were so many cute women everywhere, I didn’t manage to go on my first date. Script writers just write what people WANT to be true. The truth was, I was a loner and not a very attractive person.I had to learn how to become comfortable with myself and comfortable connecting with other people. A cute face, nice breasts, round hips, soft skin, a certain walk.Men are wired to feel attraction to a woman whose body displays signs of fertility, health and youth. Guys can like a girl a lot just because of how she looks… Now, I’m not saying that looks are everything to men, but in the beginning they’re the primary thing that attracts us to a girl in the first place.