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I was worried about his anger, or that he would relapse, or be too stressed out or my actions would cause something bad to happen. It was his turn to learn to deal with the reality of our existence instead of us having to shrink because of the reality of .” His mother had been an alcoholic and it had stunted his life. “Run” was the best advice I received and it’s the advice I would give my daughter if she ever got involved with an addict. When I finally left my husband, I was only able to do so after taking weeks to compose a list of facts.
The reason this advice hurt so much at the time was that it would have forced me to see my part in things. At my office, I began to put together a black and white list of the things in our relationship that I could not accept.
I realized over the years I had become less of myself. When someone doesn’t fit into the perceived notion of what an addict is, it’s hard for people to know what to say. There is nobody that tries harder at being “normal” than an alcoholic and his/her family.
We don't wake up every morning and choose to stay with cancer.
Obviously both are destructive, and often abusive, and sadly, about 1 degree of separation from each other.
People on the fence about leaving – listen to yourself.
For the love of God, listen to your inner voice saying 'this is not ok' and 'this is abuse', listen to your migraines, insomnia and anxiety attacks, listen to your kids, and to your bank account and to your sense of right and wrong, and to the angry person you've become.