Post divorce dating pitfalls
In the same vein, anything you say can and will be used against you – in a court of law or in the court of public opinion. Through our divorce, I shared some relationship details with close friends and family.
Understandably, many of these people became incensed and made unsolicited comments about my ex – as well as judgments regarding his overall character – not all of them accurate.
If you know how the marriage failed on your end (and it's not necessary something that needed to be corrected...
like dependency- it could be something you didn't realize about yourself...
No matter what happens between you and your spouse during your divorce, your spouse will forever be your children's parent.
But I found that anyone on is looking for an immediate wife. The best example I can give is a guy I went high school with.
Recognizing this, I found myself defending and even elevating the person who had hurt me most, something which angered people even more.
But I did it because although he had behaved (and sometimes still behaves) in a manner with which I am at odds, I know now relationships are complex, and forgiveness is powerful.
Regardless of age, kids tend to internalize and misinterpret what they hear.
On one occasion, my husband and I were arguing in front of our children.
We’ve been together for 3 months and it’s heading toward serious.