Selfish people are more relaxed when it comes to a relationship. They are with you because of what you do for them, your status and accomplishment. Without the things you do, they wouldn’t be with you. Being self-centered, they always talk about them and not you. So you may hardly hear them say, “we need to achieve this together” or “let us plan our future together.”The most you will hear is I want this, can you help me with that, etc. Your selfish partner may be a hindrance to your success and breakthrough.
They don’t want to see you achieve more than they have been it educational, career or status.
They have been programmed to think of themselves first, last, and always.
As long as David is willing to go along with what Sarah wants, Sarah will call the shots, because she is used to getting her way.
On the other hand, maybe you are just dating a selfish person.
Selfish people do not really think about the needs of others.
He seemed to handle that well, and would then turn around his behavior and help me out.
Dear Abby, If he’s selfish, why would you stay with him?
Maybe you need to assess how you show up in your relationship, and whether you are looking out for yourself enough.Do you think its worth mentioning to him that he was too selfish?He told me he was a few times and when he said it I always told him I don’t do well with selfish.A man can have a fun personality, he can be smart and successful, good looking, and great in bed.But if he’s selfish, you will not have a relationship with a true partner. And you’ll always be on the short end of the stick, which is not a fun place to be.
It goes across the board in all aspects of the relationship.