Why should i bother dating
This means that, even if we want to ask her out, a good chance may never present itself.Let’s say we made it this far: the girl we asked said yes.And on that second date, about half would be third date-worthy. And even then, it takes a bit longer than that to determine if someone is relationship-worthy. When I went on my 55th date, I got a lot of ‘the one’ vibes from our first date.Our second date I got even more ‘the one’ vibes (and a really good kiss at the end of that date).
It’s a chance for some easy fun without having to, in my experience, spend any money or do any work.
The only thing that women need to do in this scenario is say one word: “yes.”For men, dating isn’t such a carefree experience because we have to do ALL of the work.
First off, asking a girl out on an actual date can be stressful because of the possibility of rejection.
Because while a psychologist can keep on asking questions: “How does that make you feel? We’ve been talking for 11 weeks now, and I am astounded at how far she’s come. But since she does have high standards, only 10% of men will be eligible. It just means that due to her smaller dating pool, it will take her more time than it takes other women.
It’s no different than being a shrink perhaps, but one of my clients, who IS a shrink, thinks I’ve got the tougher job. Working with her has been a pure joy for me, as I am witness to her spectacular growth on a week-by-week basis. If she didn’t have such high standards, she might be satisfied by the cute, boring guys she just passed up.
As long as you’re working at it and doing all that you can, good things will come your way.